I think, in most cases, you and me are 3.0 or 3.5 persons, and sometimes we may become 2.5 persons due to some reasons. However, this time, I find that one of us stay in 2.5 for a long time. That makes me remind the days with similar scenes.
At that time, I am a 1.0 person, and that make another feel strange and uncomfortable. However, people always like things which make them happy...
At this time, I am not so sure that you know the reason or not, but I am sure I know it. I think that's an issue you can not evade in your life. And so do I.
May the God give us the love, wisdom and courage to deal with it. We must be back to 3.0 or 3.5 persons in the near future.